Nearly a decade ago, after my first film, BRO, was released, I was doing the press and I got asked this question…. “Did you just write all the female roles? ” FROM A FELLOW FEMALE. It nearly knocked me to the floor. Now, sure, the content of the movie had a lot of motocross, drugs, sex, guns, and Danny Trejo in it...even my mom questioned how I knew so much about all those things. *insert whistling and looking the other way. hehe. * And sure, I was the only girl, let alone former-pageant girl, standing on stage with a production crew of all dudes, dressed up to the nines in my fancy blue dress and heels. Build your confidence and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How to Answer the Dreaded Question, “What Do You Do?”
It’s the question most of my coaching clients dread… Clicking cocktail glasses and trying to confirm what you do onto a business card. Life coach? Kinda...I guess. Pilates instructor? Kinda. Guide to fulfillment? Okay. Fulfillment mentor? Sure. Unapologetic Mompreneur? Nah, that doesn’t go on a card, right? High-Performance Coach? Certified, hell yeah. But, none of that describes WHAT YOU DO? It doesn’t even describe who you are. Discover who you are and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Do it SCARED.
I was scared through all of it. And I did it anyway. Learn how to trust your body to know the difference between Fear that is mixed with excitement (meaning you know it’s leading you toward something new and great) and fear where it’s something that may not be aligned for you. Discover how to tell the difference.
Why You Must Be Willing to Be Wrong In Order to Achieve Your Dreams
Are you ever so freaking scared of doing the wrong thing? Making the wrong move? Being the “wrong” person for the job? I cannot tell you how many times I used to listen to what everyone told me what I “should” be, “should” do, how I “should” feel. How much money I was “supposed” to make before I could call myself successful. How much struggle I was “supposed” to experience before I could experience fulfillment in the work that I do. How I was “supposed” to feel jaded about my industry, about my business, about life. How business was “supposed” to be done, and how if I didn’t do it to their f*ing blueprint that I was incapable, incompetent, and wrong.