Holy moly! My TEDx Talk came out this past week and it brought out all the feels. From all the friends, colleagues, acquaintances, people on the interwebs who watched it, messaged me, posted, shared it…from the bottom of my heart THANK YOU!!! Discover your possibilities and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I’m going to own it - I fucking LOVE the hustle. I love the drive. I’ve got big ambitions. No, that doesn’t mean I work ALL THE TIME. I work a lot. I love it. I also make time for beach walks, park time, playdates, dance class, date nights and the gym. I just fucking love what I do. Follow your intuition and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
The number one reason most of my clients come to work with me is NOT that they want to build a business. It's NOT for my strategies, or my systems, or my digital nomad, have two babies, live in Australia lifestyle. It’s NOT that they want to even make more money (although they always do want to). The number ONE REASON why my clients come to me is this: It's for FREEDOM + EASE. Discover your freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You’ve seen it - that random friend request from some stranger in the marketing industry. Or that comment on your insta to “collab.” You feel it… You know it’s coming… And you think... “AAAAAHHH! I'm about to be hit over the head with another bad sales pitch in my DM's! No, not again!” Discover your sales relationship and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I remember back before Decky was born when my business was making pittance - and by that I mean, absolutely nada - that I was living in the lap of this one luxury. No, it was not our one-bedroom apartment in Koreatown. Nor was it the fancy designer handbags and shoes I’d vigilantly saved up to buy year after year. Choose your life’s luxuries and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I do some of my best thinking from bed on my phone. No, I’m not scrolling or consuming. No, I’m not on Instagram or Facebook, looking at how many likes something I’ve shared has or hasn’t received, or waiting to be triggered by someone’s comment. I’ve trained my tool to be a vessel of creativity. Most of my blogs, posts and emails are written from bed on my phone. Discover your discipline and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Here’s the hardest part about how I coach - I’m not going to TELL you what you want to hear. I’m not going to tell you the answer. So many clients have come to me looking for the answer - in me, externally, as If I have the solution to solve their life. And about 1/3 of the way in they realize this... I’m not letting them take the easy way out. Discover your answers and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Are you scared of being judged? Ridiculed? Hated on? Ever think…. What will they think if I do… What’ll they say if you share… I could never do XYZ because then they would think... First of all - who TF is this elusive “they” who are scaring you out of doing your soul work? And secondly… Look Queen... The ones who judge you, belittle you, mock you, aren’t the ones who are doing it. Unleash your greatness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Don’t like being manipulated? Ugh, me neither. So, stop hiding ALL of who you are. Authenticity is the antithesis of manipulation. Faking it. Pretending. Trying not to make waves. Not wanting to rock the boat. Playing nice so that people will like you. Hiding your truth. Discover your authenticity and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
While one of our core values as a company and for me personally is “Grow or Die” (hardcore, yes I know)... At the same time, even I get scared of the growth that is to come. Perhaps the greatest and most revered act of courage is knowing that you’re headed into a season of growth, and going forth and forward with it. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Every next level requires a deepening, a recommitment, a remembrance of the vision you are creating. When Spike and I first made the decision to stay in Australia, we made the commitment not knowing when we would return. He thought a few weeks I thought a few months. And here we are over one year later. I joke we packed for three weeks and are now staying for three years. Rediscover your commitments and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever not “feel ready?” Like, someday, somewhere, out there in the future, there will be a day when you feel ready to take that leap, move to that country, start that business, find that relationship, have that baby. Look, I can tell you honestly... I don’t feel ready. For any of it. But then again, I never did. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I don’t feel the need to perform. I don’t feel the need to achieve a fucking thing right now. I am totally 100% content in this moment with just being. And I’m sitting with the weirdness and the greatness of that. I mean how often, as a high achiever, as parents, as business owners, do we give ourselves the permission to just BE? To NOT do? To NOT perform? Nurture your body and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I don’t write content to write content. I don’t do it because I “have” to. I don’t make podcasts because it’s the latest coolest thing that all the “legit” coaches are doing. I didn’t start a Youtube channel to be cool or to get a Streamy or to be some “influencer.” I don’t send emails because I “need to stay in touch with my list.” Discover your ONLY reason and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever felt out of step? Off the beat? There is a feeling when you are living in the flow of faith and possibility...and when you’re not. When you’re stuck in frustration and overwhelm it feels like you’re the Universe's dance partner with two left feet, tripping over yourself, fumbling, tumbling, and stumbling trying to hold it together with some modicum of grace. Discover your purpose and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Have you ever received feedback for your work that blew you away? Like, I’m talking knock you off your socks, holy cow, “damn I am awesome” level of validation for the soul-work that you do day in and day out everyday? It’s easy, especially when you’re operating in your Zone of Genius to get lost in the paradigm of naturalness (because being in your Genius Zone flows with so much ease) to forget that THIS, this is what separates you from everyone else. Discover your Zone of Genius and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Oops I did it again. Yes, I pulled a Brittany. No, I didn’t run off and get married...again. I caught myself doubting myself. #OhNoSheDidnt Yes, even now, even after the Universe mother-effing DELIVERED LIKE A MOFO last year in #alltheways, I still caught myself spiraling last week in a story of “not being supported.” Ah, fear. Doubt. My old friends. Good to see you again. Thanks for the lesson...again. Recognize your self-limiting beliefs and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
If you say you’re unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity, then QUEEN, you best be ACTING like it. Being unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity means… You RESPECT your own boundaries around your time. You don’t give away things that people normally pay you for free…like, “picking your brain.” You OWN your prices and you are proud to share them with your prospects and customers. You will curtail any haggling or bartering conversations toot suite because you know the worth of what you provide. You are simply UNAVAILABLE to not get paid for the value you provide in this world. Back things up with your Actions and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
It is what it is. So cliche, right? But, as I always say, cliches are cliches because they are common truth. But, here’s the thing… You cannot change or move or gain momentum without AWARENESS of what is. So many people live in the mythical land of shoulda-coulda-woulda. And it’s a lovely place if you like stewing in your own guilt, shame, apathy, and anger. But, eh, not so much for me. Acknowledge what is and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Doing hard things is hard. And with whatever it is you are looking to accomplish… Whether it’s… Connecting with your 3-year old mid-tantrum... Saving your marriage... Reprogramming your relationship with food… Building a multi-million dollar company… Launching your first course… There will be moments of hard. Yes, “hard” is a construct of the mind. Yes, “hard” also feels gnarly when you are in the thick of it, trying to make it work, find a way, discover a solution, see the opportunity when in the thick of a problem. Surrender the “how” and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
