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Lock it in for 2022

Lock it in for 2022

Come New Year’s day, for most people - if they’re not too hungover - they’ll set a list of intentions for their goals. Lose X amount of pounds. Be a better parent. Go to the gym X Make X amount of money this year. If you’re a high achiever, you may have a very loooooong list. Discover your full potential and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

An American at TEDx Currumbin in Australia

An American at TEDx Currumbin in Australia

I’ve always known this was going to happen - having a TEDx talk. Sure it was on my vision board, but that’s not what actually moves mountains. The thing is... I had already DECIDED it. Most people don’t decide. They live in the land of mediocre vacillation of “wanting” or “would like” or “trying” or “it’d be nice if…” Of course it’d be nice to have a million dollars, right? Decide now and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

How to Surrender the “How”

How to Surrender the “How”

Doing hard things is hard. And with whatever it is you are looking to accomplish… Whether it’s… Connecting with your 3-year old mid-tantrum... Saving your marriage... Reprogramming your relationship with food… Building a multi-million dollar company… Launching your first course… There will be moments of hard. Yes, “hard” is a construct of the mind. Yes, “hard” also feels gnarly when you are in the thick of it, trying to make it work, find a way, discover a solution, see the opportunity when in the thick of a problem. Surrender the “how” and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

How to Shift Your Money Mindset from Scarcity to Abundance

How to Shift Your Money Mindset from Scarcity to Abundance

Ever feel like there’s never enough money? I used to as well. Back when I first started my business I was stuck in a paradigm of “never enough.” “Never enough money.” “Never enough time.” Pure scarcity. As I started to tweak and hone my mindset, reshaping and reframing these beliefs. Money is all around you. It’s in the phone you hold in your hand. It’s the laptop you work on. It’s the person. It’s the coffee shop itself. Shift your mindset and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

Deep Breath. You Got This.

Deep Breath. You Got This.

This used to drive me CRAZY in the personal development space. I would hear my coaches and mentors say, “All you have to do is DECIDE.” DECIDE to be successful. DECIDE to be unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity. DECIDE to make sh*tons of money. DECIDE to have a business and life that freaking rocks your socks off! And for me, back in 2017, I wanted to punch my head through a wall, because I had decided. I had gone all in...and I still wasn’t seeing results as fast or as bountiful as I had wanted. Frustrating, right? I had to ask... What does it mean to DECIDE? Make that decision and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

The Fabulous Secret of Success

The Fabulous Secret of Success

I’ve got a secret for you.Knowing this has allowed me to…Recover completely from a 10 year battle with bulimia…Write a feature film that got on Netflix…Meet, keep, marry, and make beautiful babies with the love of my life...Become the partner in a quarter-million dollar company at 24…Defy doctor’s beliefs and have my baby, my way…Start my dream business…Bounce my body back to it’s pre-baby style with ease...Become a Forbes contributor…Close $39,000 private clients... Live in freaking Australia… Wanna know what it is?Discover the secret and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

Do it SCARED.

Do it SCARED.

I was scared through all of it. And I did it anyway. Learn how to trust your body to know the difference between Fear that is mixed with excitement (meaning you know it’s leading you toward something new and great) and fear where it’s something that may not be aligned for you. Discover how to tell the difference.

Consume vs. Create

“Who is this person?” I thought. Fifteen minutes had flown by, my thumb was pulsating as my soul was shrinking into Facebook oblivion. I caught myself in a moment of lightening awareness, with the thunderous rumble of creation roaring through my veins. “What am I even doing?” I’d spent the past fifteen minutes scrolling, sensing, feeling, consuming messages of hope, despair, light, darkness, facts, conspiracy, quotes, and images of lunch and COVID tests. What I’d accomplished...nothing. What I’d felt...everything. It’s easy to get enthralled into the black hole of consuming on social media. It gives our brains the dopamine rushes like a heroin addict as our thumbs repetitively shove the scrolling into our eyeballs, heightening our senses while simultaneously numbing them. I put the phone down on the table and walked outside for a breath of fresh air. Even as high performers, it’s easy to get lost in the addiction to consume - Netflix, alcohol, mindless scrolling on social media, sugar. The list goes on and on of the cavities of excuses that we use to justify. What I’ve seen, especially with high performers, is that sometimes, they think it’s almost justifiable. More often…