We are living in a world right now where, now, more than ever, cultivating a skillset of communication skills is vital to the survival of our species. We have learned how to argue, complain, berate, share evidence and communicate a side of which we believe we are beholden to be “right” about. Now, more than ever divisiveness is circulating, instead of diversity and curiosity. Discover how to communicate effectively and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
What do you choose?
As you know, everything begins with choice. Consciously or unconsciously, every moment of our lives, we are making a decision - to create the future or repeat the past. Do you like what’s on repeat? If not, maybe it’s time to choose something new? Here’s what I choose... I am choosing to live an extraordinary life. Discover your choices and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
If you’ve ever been called “too much.”
A lot of times when people call us names or say things like you’re “too much” or “too bold” or are selfish for wanting more, or you’re stupid for being into whatever it is that lights you up...I want you to know this from the bottom of my heart... It’s not you. It’s them. While I’m not one for passing the buck or shifting the blame onto others, perception is projection. It’s mirror neurons, baby! Discover your light and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Why You Must Celebrate Yourself
Can we just take a hot second to celebrate how awesome YOU are? You and all your quirks...that make you unique, special, and one-of-a-kind. You and all your mistakes...that you're learning from every day. You and all your successes...that make you a freaking badass at what you do! You and all your faults...that strengthen your self-compassion and your immense empathy for others. Celebrate yourself and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Do You Know How Powerful You Are?
Do you have any idea just how powerful YOU are? Your body has the power to heal itself. When you get a cut, your body immediately goes to work in healing it. You don’t have to think about it. You don’t have to work hard for it to heal. It heals. You bandage that bad boy up and - voila! - within a couple days your body has healed itself. When you break a bone, you set it and forget it. Claim your power and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How to Never Doubt Yourself Again
I have a belief. I’ll warn you…it’s quite controversial. You see, I used to have this desperate, dire fear of being wrong. GASP! NO! Say it isn’t so! From this fear-based belief, it led me down a dark and windy, lonely road to perfectionism. All or nothing. Nothing was ever good enough. 99% = Failure. Only 100% or more. Discover your belief and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Addressing the Fear of Being Judged (aka Handling the Haters)
Are you scared of being judged? Ridiculed? Hated on? Ever think…. What will they think if I do… What’ll they say if you share… I could never do XYZ because then they would think... First of all - who TF is this elusive “they” who are scaring you out of doing your soul work? And secondly… Look Queen... The ones who judge you, belittle you, mock you, aren’t the ones who are doing it. Unleash your greatness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How to Define Your Business Core Values and Your Boundaries (at the same time!)
It is what it is. So cliche, right? But, as I always say, cliches are cliches because they are common truth. But, here’s the thing… You cannot change or move or gain momentum without AWARENESS of what is. So many people live in the mythical land of shoulda-coulda-woulda. And it’s a lovely place if you like stewing in your own guilt, shame, apathy, and anger. But, eh, not so much for me. Acknowledge what is and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Deep Breath. You Got This.
This used to drive me CRAZY in the personal development space. I would hear my coaches and mentors say, “All you have to do is DECIDE.” DECIDE to be successful. DECIDE to be unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity. DECIDE to make sh*tons of money. DECIDE to have a business and life that freaking rocks your socks off! And for me, back in 2017, I wanted to punch my head through a wall, because I had decided. I had gone all in...and I still wasn’t seeing results as fast or as bountiful as I had wanted. Frustrating, right? I had to ask... What does it mean to DECIDE? Make that decision and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
The One Marketing Strategy You Need to Succeed
Put the journal down. Put the course on pause. STOP...wait! Before you sign up for that next certification program. And check yo’self. Are you doing these...things...because you believe you “have to” do them or are “supposed to” do them or “should” do them to be successful? This is the difference between taking ALIGNED action. And following the rules. Discover your strategies and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
The Fabulous Secret of Success
I’ve got a secret for you.Knowing this has allowed me to…Recover completely from a 10 year battle with bulimia…Write a feature film that got on Netflix…Meet, keep, marry, and make beautiful babies with the love of my life...Become the partner in a quarter-million dollar company at 24…Defy doctor’s beliefs and have my baby, my way…Start my dream business…Bounce my body back to it’s pre-baby style with ease...Become a Forbes contributor…Close $39,000 private clients... Live in freaking Australia… Wanna know what it is?Discover the secret and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Settling for fine? 🤦🏼♀️
One of the biggest obstacles that I’ve seen to a successful client’s greatness is their comfort level. Especially when you’ve achieved a lot, especially when you’ve had several significant wins under your belt, especially when you’ve been able to grow, scale, accomplish goals of impressive heights - there is a height, an altitude that is comfortable. Flying higher seems dangerous. We wanted not to do that. Right, Icarus? So we coast at an altitude that suits us - nice bottles of wine, nice home, nice life - no real NEED for change. Claim your throne of courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Take Your Goals Off the Pedestal And Bring them Into the Present
Habits aren’t the problem. THIS is.
Habits are the results of the thoughts you think, the feelings you feel, and most importantly, the BELIEF you have. While most coaches work on the “doing” habits of getting you to your goals, how often are you working on the habits of BEING? Being who you are creating yourself to be? Discover 3 questions to ask yourself to help you become more consistent with your DOING habits, by starting with the BEING.
How to Dig Deep When Quitting Just Isn’t an Option
Even I have days where I want to quit, where I wonder what's the f*ing point in all this work. Where I literally question EVERYTHING and want to choose the easy road, where the questions tickle my mind… Maybe I could be normal? Maybe I could just settle for another job, something that I didn't really care about and allow my art and creativity and absolutely love for what I do go to the back burner or go onto simmer? Maybe I could tone it down and not have such big dreams? Maybe I could TRY, desperately, to quiet the voice inside of me that pushes me on to do MORE, have MORE, be MORE? Because with passion for potential comes PAIN when people don’t recognize that their DREAM IS POSSIBLE.
Remove YOU from Your Sales Process
You know when you find that movie or that show. You know…that one. The one that you just can’t stop thinking about it. When you’re chatting with your fellow socially distanced mates, the Netflix recommendation just pours out of your mouth amidst thirty “OMG, OMG, you have to watch this!” And, “It’s soo good,” which is appropriately said on repeat because the show just leaves you in awe, inspired, on the edge of your seat, excited for the next one, eager to enjoy it. Now think about how you promote your products and services. When you talk about it, do you talk about it with the same level of excitement and joy? Does it have the same amount of “OMG’S” and “It’s soooo good!” You have to watch this, do that, buy now, or any other CTA. Both are buying conversations. Persuasion is persuasion. Here’s the thing… If you are not the BIGGEST fan of your business, of your products, and your services, and of what you do, then HOW do you expect others to be as well?
How to Make a Healthy Business Baby
“You’re frustrated.” I could see it in her eyes, as they welled up with tears about to cry. She’d done all the visualizing. She’d journaled and future-casted, prayed, entered the astral-plane, dropped into the 5-D. She’d created more vision boards in 1 year than most do in their lifetime. She meditated, constantly, incessantly, daily. She raised her vibe, tapped into the frequency, experienced the Divine. She’d gone through therapy, reiki, sound-healing, trauma counseling, prayer-circles, support groups. She’d taken classes in neuroscience, courses in mindset, courses in Miracles. She’d surrounded herself with quartzes and played Solfeggio Hz frequencies every hour. She’d invested in herself, buying programs, hiring mentors, coaches, doing masterminds. “You’re damn right I’m frustrated…wait, no, that’s negative language. I know I shouldn’t say it, but that’s where I am.” “Because you haven’t seen results yet.” “Exactly.”
Why the Art of Receiving is as Important as the Act of Giving
When I first started my business, I marketed and worked with 99% women - fierce, badass, driven, ambitious women who wanted it all and who were willing to put their nose to the grindstone, do the work, hustle hard, pedal to the metal, push themselves until they broke down or burnt out, the go-go-goal-getters who were driven AF to move heaven and earth to do the work. Usually, it was from a place of giving, of service, of a desire to be more, do more, share more, serve more. It didn’t matter whether they were giving to 1300 students in an online course, or giving money, time, energy, to their kids, giving to everyone, everyone...except themselves. Giving from lack is not giving from love.