I have waited for this day, with bated breath for a month!!!! It felt the same as I waited those extra weeks for Colton to come, nearly three weeks past his due date. Pregnant with purpose. Pulsating with potential. It’s been a process of trusting, releasing, breathing deep, and knowing it would happen. Knowing that the possibility was in me, I’d birthed it and it was going to come. Discover the possibilities and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I’ve always known this was going to happen - having a TEDx talk. Sure it was on my vision board, but that’s not what actually moves mountains. The thing is... I had already DECIDED it. Most people don’t decide. They live in the land of mediocre vacillation of “wanting” or “would like” or “trying” or “it’d be nice if…” Of course it’d be nice to have a million dollars, right? Decide now and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Faith and fear are basically the same thing - it’s a BELIEF in something that HAS NOT YET HAPPENED coming true and yet, believing with CERTAINTY that that which has not happened yet, will happen. And both are like a compass. One is pointed in the direction of what you want. The other is pointed in the direction of what you don’t want. Discover your faith and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
What do you do when an idea “lands”? When it comes into the port of your mind, do you strap it in, tie it down? Or do you let it dock there, but don’t claim it as part of your fleet? Ideas are like chances. They are dreams to be seized. They are visions to be realized. They are possibilities to be honed, sharpened and beautified. They are money to be received. Lock in your ideas and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
When I first heard this idea from one of my mentors that “buyers are liars,” I was triggered every which way from Sunday. What do you mean I don’t know what I want? You think I’m lying to myself about what I desire? And then I realized...after telling my ego to chill TF out...yeah, I’m guilty of lying to myself too when I buy. Less now, after several years of reshaping my money-mindset. Trust your choices and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I have a belief. I’ll warn you…it’s quite controversial. You see, I used to have this desperate, dire fear of being wrong. GASP! NO! Say it isn’t so! From this fear-based belief, it led me down a dark and windy, lonely road to perfectionism. All or nothing. Nothing was ever good enough. 99% = Failure. Only 100% or more. Discover your belief and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
There is so much emphasis placed on “having confidence.” these days. It seems like everyone wants to know how to “have confidence?” Where’d my confidence go? If I only was confident, then I’d [GO AHEAD AND FILL IN THE BLANK] As if it could just magically disappear or arrive in your life. When I first started my business I was NOT confident. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I do some of my best thinking from bed on my phone. No, I’m not scrolling or consuming. No, I’m not on Instagram or Facebook, looking at how many likes something I’ve shared has or hasn’t received, or waiting to be triggered by someone’s comment. I’ve trained my tool to be a vessel of creativity. Most of my blogs, posts and emails are written from bed on my phone. Discover your discipline and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Fear inspires no one. Sure, it motivates. Of course you can really get moving with fear, but ultimately chaos and fear don’t inspire. Inspiration is divine. It’s soul connecting with soul. Courage is inspiration in motion. Having the courage to admit when you’re scared. Having the courage to go into the arena. Having the courage to do what someone else won’t or believes they can’t. That inspires. Discover your inspiration and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever not “feel ready?” Like, someday, somewhere, out there in the future, there will be a day when you feel ready to take that leap, move to that country, start that business, find that relationship, have that baby. Look, I can tell you honestly... I don’t feel ready. For any of it. But then again, I never did. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
If you say you’re unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity, then QUEEN, you best be ACTING like it. Being unavailable for anything less than profit and prosperity means… You RESPECT your own boundaries around your time. You don’t give away things that people normally pay you for free…like, “picking your brain.” You OWN your prices and you are proud to share them with your prospects and customers. You will curtail any haggling or bartering conversations toot suite because you know the worth of what you provide. You are simply UNAVAILABLE to not get paid for the value you provide in this world. Back things up with your Actions and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I used to be HUGE on New Year Resolutions - like the biggest. Since I was 12, there are diary entries with lists, loads of lists...soooooo many lists...of all the things I would be, do, and have in the following 12 months. Problem is, many of the things were always what I thought I “should” do to be enough. You will never do enough to be enough if you don’t believe you’re enough as you are, right now. After recovering from bulimia (and ultimately perfectionism), I stopped the incessant and inefficient list making for a more suitable process - intuition. I started trusting myself. Discover your priorities and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Expectations can be hard to manage, especially when you’re a high achiever.We tend to set the bar pretty darn high for how life/business/our bodies “should be.In the past, I’ve had this expectancy of what I “should” be making or “should” be doing around the holidays.So many shoulds.You should have turkey on Thanksgiving.You should sell on Black Friday.You should be making more money.There is a difference between living with expectations - having a belief that certain dreams and desires that you have will come true.And operating with expectancy - being in the STATE of anticipation.Manifest your dreams to reality and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
For the first time in 2 years, I chose to NOT do like the rest of the world.Every year over Thanksgiving in the past, I have been glued to my computer frantically creating content and a Black Friday/Cyber Monday offer that, frankly, never really was in alignment, to begin with.I’ll be honest. I created a lot of them out of a “scarcity mindset” - and I learned a hard lesson when you do that.They sold a whopping zero. Two years in a row.Yes, one year selling zero is a fluke. Two is a pattern.So this year, between moving into our new place - an actual apartment not an AirBnB - and jumping through all the hoops that went into that...It just didn’t feel aligned to throw out some bundle that wasn’t 100% from a place of service, trust, and faith.No one needs more stuff right now.Discover your connections and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Confession time: Eminem has helped unlock my soul since 2009. To this day, Lose Yourself still gives me chills. It is a song that when it comes on, the volume goes all the way up, and suddenly this Fire Rabbit (if you’re familiar with Chinese astrology and a proper double entendre with Eminem’s character in 8 Mile) comes out. She is fierce. She is driven. She is freaking powerful. Ever have a song that taps you into who you KNOW you are and can be at your soul? Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
“Once I get my degree, then I’ll start my Youtube channel and posting more on social media.” Ah, the great If/Then Syndrome, oh I was ready to tackle this one with my Revolutionary Empire Builder head-on. “I’m curious, how have you been able to get your degree?” “Well...I studied and practiced.” “Exactly. You accomplish through DOING and practicing and repetition. It’s like a muscle. You have to strengthen it. Discover your consistence, your discipline and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
“Why did you want to become an entrepreneur?” I asked. “Freedom,” my client said to me. I’ve been working with high achieving entrepreneurs and creators for four years now, and there is one reason, bar none, why someone is crazy enough to venture into the world of entrepreneurship, to create a business and life on their terms. Discover true freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
“I don’t know,” my client said to me. My private clients know all too well that I NEVER accept that answer. Why? It blocks you off from knowing. It commands your subconscious mind to do exactly what you are commanding it to do - not know. It’s a statement that cuts you off from possibility. So how can you tap into that inner KNOWING? Learn how to build your trust back with your intuition, that KNOWING that’s never steered you wrong.
“My business isn’t essential for survival.” Ummmm, excuse me? I thought as I stared at my client last week, my mouth agape. Now, look, I know a lot of people are labeling certain businesses as essential and non-essential, so I had to dive deeper. “Essential for the survival of whom, specifically?” I asked, “For you. For it? For the people you serve?” “Of course it’s essential for me,” she replied, “But for humanity when people are in crisis, it’s not like I’m in healthcare or selling food.” “What are humans starving for more than food right now?” She paused. I held the space for the appropriate cinematic moment before the #micdrop came out of my mouth.
