Have you struggled to speak up for yourself? Ever feel like you just...weren’t...being...heard? Ugh. It’s the world’s most frustrating feeling. I still struggle with it. That feeling like you’re screaming into the wind and all you’re receiving are crickets in return. Maybe it’s in your marketing messaging that’s just not...landing...or getting the reactions you expect. Maybe it’s with your body, like “Uh, hello body, I’m putting all this work into toning you down. You’re supposed to be losing weight not gaining, right?” Discover your voice and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does
Have you ever had that GUT-sensation that felt like a warning...and you didn’t listen? It’s like watching a suspenseful horror movie and you KNOW not to go through that door. Maybe you even scream at the screen - but still, the character goes in...and, well, you KNOW what happens. 🤦🏼♀️ How many times has your “gut-brain” been sacrificed at the expense of “logic?” I’ll be honest, I didn’t always trust my intuition. Heck, I reeeeaally didn’t trust my body for a while there - hello, 10 years of bulimia. Discover your body and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Think You’re a Failure? Sounds Like You’ve Got an Identity Crisis.
Having worked with high-achieving visionary leaders for the past 5 years now, I’ve seen so many entrepreneurs and leaders struggle with a MASSIVE identity crisis! Think about it. Have you ever uttered in the same week… “I’m a failure!” and then one success or two later, “Damn, I’m good! I’m a freaking rockstar!” This is a classic identity crisis. I mean, which way is your subconscious mind supposed to go. Mixed messages to your subconscious mind = mixed results. Discover your true identity and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
BABY GOT BACK
CONFESSION: I like big butts and I cannot lie. Well, I more so like the Sir Mix-a-Lot song. The REAL truth is, it’s my freaking go-to karaoke song. Yes, I know every word. And I bust it out like you would not imagine. Truly, a spectacle to behold. You’re welcome if you are blessed to see it. Recently it’s been in my head. Not because I’ve been going out hitting the karaoke bars - hellloooo, pregnant. But, because Declan’s been sticking his butt in the air, saying “Mama, look at my butt” as he shakes it for all to behold...I have no idea where he learned this. I mean this kid has NO inhibitions. Discover your self-acceptance and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Twerk it to Werk, Werk, Werk, Werk, Werk it.
Did it bother you that I spelled “werk” wrong? I mean, I’m probably the WORST at grammar and correct spelling, but intentionally spelling a word wrong to be cool like Rhianna is both liberating and at the same time, I want to go back and fix the glaring spelling mistake...like, right now. Anyhow… It’s funny when you start to become hyper self-aware of your sh-tuff. As Dr. Gabor Mate says in his book, When the Body Says No - our book of the month for our Mindful Monarchs Members - “There is no true responsibility without awareness...People are deprived of the opportunity to become truly responsible...The more we can learn about ourselves, the less prone we are to become passive victims.” Discover your ROOT and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How to Keep Going (EVEN when You’re Seeing Results)
How often do you have a habit or a practice in place that feels SOOOOOOOO GOOD? I mean, doing this thing makes your body feel ALIVE, vibrant...AH-MAZING! But for some reason...somewhere along the way...you just...STOP. DOING. IT. What gives? Fear, duh. Typically, having coached high achieving entrepreneurs and leaders for the pase it’s just because we’ve lost the container of having a fear-based drive to do it. The problem was...YOU SAW RESULTS. Wait? Isn’t that what you wanted right? Discover your consistency and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
When Love and Leadership Make a Business Baby
Ever wonder why so many people fall out of love with their business? Or their job? Or their career? I mean, you studied for it. You trained for it. You probably achieved so much in it already. So what gives? Typically, having coached high-achieving multi-passionate leaders for the past 5 years, I’ve found that it’s not the job or the business or the career that grows weary. It’s their motivation strategy. Discover pleasure as motivation and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
What’s Your Fantasy?
CONFESSION TIME: I love me some dirty rap. 🎶 Oh yes, I mean my white girl booty can get down and Christina Agularia style diiiiiirrrty with Ludacris, Nikki Minaj, and some WOP when the mood strikes. (If you’re with me on this, please let me know 🙌🏼) One of my fave’s is Ludacris' “What’s Yo’ Fantasy,” I mean whooooo, baby it’s already sending off the dopamine secretion in my body. (Yes, that is a real thing...just THINKING about a song that gets you in the mood will trigger the dopamine in your brain.) Discover motivation by pleasure and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
WTF is it with FOMO?
You know when you’ve been telling your partner something for...forever. And then suddenly they hear it from someone else, and it just CLICKS! Sure, you have to check your ego. But, once you do, you feel SO FREAKING EXCITED to be on the same page. Well, that is what yesterday’s Mind-Body Movement Masterclass was like for me! I brought in my friend, Physical Therapist, Holly Vaughn - she basically has the entire alphabet of PT creds and certifications behind her - to speak to our Mindful Monarchs Membership. Discover what can happen when you show up and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Bad Pain vs. Good Pain
Oh it hurts so good - you know the feeling - when you’re totally crushing it in the gym. You push that extra mile. You do that ONE, LAST rep. You do 10X more sit ups because you’re just in the freaking zone. That is what we call good pain. Good pain comes from growth. It comes from that depth of soul, of your personal power, when you lean courageously in to go that extra mile. And it doesn’t just show up in the gym. I see it all the time in my client’s businesses. Discover your good pain and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Why does this hurt?
Have you ever had one of those annoying pains that just doesn’t go away? Ever been in the middle of a really big project and then suddenly - WHAM! - out of nowhere, you pull a shoulder, twist an ankle, and down you go? Having worked with high performing bodies with high standards for a righteous butt-kickingwhether in the Pilates studio or mentally with business-upleveling coaching - for over 16+ years I cannot tell you how many times I’ve seen productivity tank when the body craps out. Whether it’s a nagging ache that disrupts your depth of sleep, or a serious injury that completely curtails your morning gym routine, your greatest tool as a leader is your body ...If it ain’t working right, everything can feel tight. Constricted. Challenging...PAINFUL. That’s why I’m so excited to announce our new Mind-Body Movement Masterclass series!!!! Overcome your pain and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
We did it!!
WE DID IT! We made it through 2020. You survived. You’re here. You learned some things along the way. And, wo-man-o-man, how those lessons will serve in this decade to come. Take a deep breath and release. 2020 was challenging. And with challenging years, like with challenging workouts, your body needs space to rest and recuperate. Give yourself the gentle touch of rest. Grace your body, your mind, your soul with a break. Discover the lessons you’ve learned and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Live Your Life from the Core
Ever had the belief that you couldn’t be ALL of yourself in your business? When I made the shift from Pilates into solely High-Performance Coaching, Pilates was like an ex-husband I didn’t want to talk about or have anyone know about. Discover how you could be holding yourself from calling in your dream clients by NOT owning ALL of who you are in your business.
Lucero, Non Uro (Shine, Don't Burn)
You are the fire. The all-consuming, everlasting, eternal flame. You cook up creations, businesses, opportunities, relationships that would be cold and stale if it wasn't for you. You illuminate the sky. Discover your bright, bold light, and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Go ALL IN on YOU.
“You are so fearless. I just so admire what you did - I mean, just choosing to stay in Australia! That’s so brave. I see myself doing that.” I didn’t know what to say. I was wrapping up a session with one of my private clients and this was what she said. It was then that it hit me. People are watching. Discover how your life is a testimony for what’s possible and how you can live it as an example to serve others.
How to Answer the Dreaded Question, “What Do You Do?”
It’s the question most of my coaching clients dread… Clicking cocktail glasses and trying to confirm what you do onto a business card. Life coach? Kinda...I guess. Pilates instructor? Kinda. Guide to fulfillment? Okay. Fulfillment mentor? Sure. Unapologetic Mompreneur? Nah, that doesn’t go on a card, right? High-Performance Coach? Certified, hell yeah. But, none of that describes WHAT YOU DO? It doesn’t even describe who you are. Discover who you are and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Do it SCARED.
I was scared through all of it. And I did it anyway. Learn how to trust your body to know the difference between Fear that is mixed with excitement (meaning you know it’s leading you toward something new and great) and fear where it’s something that may not be aligned for you. Discover how to tell the difference.
It Was Always Meant to Be You
Why is it that so many people struggle and suffer from shoulding themselves? Where they should be. What they should be doing. How much they should be making. Why they should be farther along by now. Here’s the thing, I’ve noticed with working for high achieving visionary leaders for the past 4 years now… The more you SHOULD yourself, the more you’re stuck in the SHOULD instead of enjoying what is. Discover how you can learn to enjoy the present moment and speed up your progress by kicking all the “should’s” to the curb.