Can we just take a hot second to celebrate how awesome YOU are? You and all your quirks...that make you unique, special, and one-of-a-kind. You and all your mistakes...that you're learning from every day. You and all your successes...that make you a freaking badass at what you do! You and all your faults...that strengthen your self-compassion and your immense empathy for others. Celebrate yourself and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Are you scared of being judged? Ridiculed? Hated on? Ever think…. What will they think if I do… What’ll they say if you share… I could never do XYZ because then they would think... First of all - who TF is this elusive “they” who are scaring you out of doing your soul work? And secondly… Look Queen... The ones who judge you, belittle you, mock you, aren’t the ones who are doing it. Unleash your greatness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
While one of our core values as a company and for me personally is “Grow or Die” (hardcore, yes I know)... At the same time, even I get scared of the growth that is to come. Perhaps the greatest and most revered act of courage is knowing that you’re headed into a season of growth, and going forth and forward with it. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Fear inspires no one. Sure, it motivates. Of course you can really get moving with fear, but ultimately chaos and fear don’t inspire. Inspiration is divine. It’s soul connecting with soul. Courage is inspiration in motion. Having the courage to admit when you’re scared. Having the courage to go into the arena. Having the courage to do what someone else won’t or believes they can’t. That inspires. Discover your inspiration and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Consistently throughout these past trying months facing the deepest fear and acceptance of loss I have ever known after losing my dad, I have been told, “You’re so strong.” Or, “You’re the strongest person I know.” I don’t say this to brag. My mom has too. And I’ll be honest, I am strong and I’m tired of being strong and I’m proud of my strength at the same time. Sometimes the “strong ones” struggle most when they feel anything but. Accept your weakness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Hold it together. Stay strong.These are many words that have been uttered to me this past week, as my dad slipped from this life on Wednesday, after weeks of being in the hospital.Of course, as always, they were uttered with the best intentions.Honestly, though, I don’t feel very strong.I feel very raw and real and ripped open, and if that’s strength then rock on, I’m a freaking badass.It got me wondering, why as a society do we praise and pride ourselves on strength?And more, what fear is there in being vulnerable, raw, real, and stripped of all pretense?Just because I don’t feel strong NOW doesn’t mean I’m not strong, or won’t ever be strong. In fact, quite the opposite.As a human being, you are not bound to the emotion of strength.Discover your strength and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
If negativity is your kryptonite too, keep reading.⠀Because hot dang, I feel frankly worn from these past few weeks. You too?Thank God for Spike, my partner, and my support when I’m in the middle of a “Hurri-Kim” of crap feelings.Fortunately, I’ve cultivated the tools over years and years of work to recognize, acknowledge, shift and breakthrough - but dang, when you’re in it it’s like the breaking down of your being.What happens when you get stabbed with your own kryptonite?You feel the inner pangs of your own fear, doubt, frustration, shame, or whatever other Superwoman-crushing feelings, you feel, that make you - Human. Embrace your being human and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
It’s easy to slip into doubt and fear. Doubt and fear are normal, human emotions. Everyone, from plebeians to queen, has experienced it. A Queen, however, knows just how much weight Fear can toss and for how long, before she kicks that b*tch right back to where she belongs...in the minds of the mediocre. Fear will sit on your throne and rule your life if you let her, as she warps and rots your dream from the inside out, like an insipid virus. Her spies creep in through the catacombs of doubt, where the buried voices of those long gone echo. Her armies surround your gates, waiting, daring you to expand, to reach higher, to climb rather, to grow bigger, to go beyond where you are now. For at that moment you do, she is right there to push back.
