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How a 90-Minute Conversation Can Transform Your Life + Business, From Author Your Life Founder, Lara Zielin

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How a 90-Minute Conversation Can Transform Your Life + Business, From Author Your Life Founder, Lara Zielin

Have you ever received feedback for your work that blew you away? Like, I’m talking knock you off your socks, holy cow, “damn I am awesome” level of validation for the soul-work that you do day in and day out everyday? It’s easy, especially when you’re operating in your Zone of Genius to get lost in the paradigm of naturalness (because being in your Genius Zone flows with so much ease) to forget that THIS, this is what separates you from everyone else. Discover your Zone of Genius and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

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Becoming Stronger Than Yesterday: How to Inspire Others with Your Strength + Struggles

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Becoming Stronger Than Yesterday: How to Inspire Others with Your Strength + Struggles

Consistently throughout these past trying months facing the deepest fear and acceptance of loss I have ever known after losing my dad, I have been told, “You’re so strong.” Or, “You’re the strongest person I know.” I don’t say this to brag. My mom has too. And I’ll be honest, I am strong and I’m tired of being strong and I’m proud of my strength at the same time. Sometimes the “strong ones” struggle most when they feel anything but. Accept your weakness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

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Overwhelmed with Overwhelm?

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Overwhelmed with Overwhelm?

Have you ever been so overwhelmed, you feel like you’re paralyzed to do anything? Do you struggle with feeling like there is never enough time to get everything you want to get done? The beauty of overwhelm is...well...it’s like the body. When you’re lifting weights, you’re working out to failure. You’re doing reps until your body is literally OVERWHELMED with the capacity and cannot go anymore. Allow for the rest and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

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"How does HE do it all" said no one.

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"How does HE do it all" said no one.

Nearly a decade ago, after my first film, BRO, was released, I was doing the press and I got asked this question…. “Did you just write all the female roles? ” FROM A FELLOW FEMALE. It nearly knocked me to the floor. Now, sure, the content of the movie had a lot of motocross, drugs, sex, guns, and Danny Trejo in it...even my mom questioned how I knew so much about all those things. *insert whistling and looking the other way. hehe. * And sure, I was the only girl, let alone former-pageant girl, standing on stage with a production crew of all dudes, dressed up to the nines in my fancy blue dress and heels. Build your confidence and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

Loving on the loathing.

Loving on the loathing.

I used to hide from the parts of myself I hated - the hypocrite, the negative, the jealous bitch, the victim, the whiny brat. Typically, I’m a pretty positive person. But there are days when the doubt rages or the fear feels all too consuming. And usually, there is a thought - just one on repeat that’s like “It’s a small world,” where now you can’t get it out of your head, can you? And it’s there. And it sucks. Discover your deepest transformation and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

Habits aren’t the problem. THIS is.

Habits aren’t the problem. THIS is.

Habits are the results of the thoughts you think, the feelings you feel, and most importantly, the BELIEF you have. While most coaches work on the “doing” habits of getting you to your goals, how often are you working on the habits of BEING? Being who you are creating yourself to be? Discover 3 questions to ask yourself to help you become more consistent with your DOING habits, by starting with the BEING.

Meet Yourself When You Sell

Meet Yourself When You Sell

I was working with my client who was struggling with people canceling their membership to his programs. “You know, Kim with the economy being what it is, I don’t blame them. I mean, I’ve been hunkering down, looking at my finances and looking where I can shave off a few dollars as well.” “Hmmm…” I said. He must have noticed my pause. “What do you mean…’hmm’?” He asked me. “Well, it’s just interesting. As my mentor, Eben Pagan says, ‘‘When you sell you meet yourself.’” “Hmmm, that is interesting,” he said. I could see his wheels spinning. First, let me be clear, there is nothing wrong with managing your expenses, being fiscally responsible, being aware of where your money is going, honoring the dollars you spend and the dollars that are given to you in your business. Period. Manifest your money beliefs into reality and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.

Perfect doesn’t sell. THIS Does.

Perfect doesn’t sell. THIS Does.

It’s the Jennifer Lawrence v. Anne Hathaway paradigm. The more human you appear to be, the more people relate to you. The more perfect you seem, the more people subconsciously distrust you. But what do you do if you’re a card-carrying perfectionist? Discover on the blog why being perfect doesn’t sell and how to tap into your unique, authenticity so you sell as 100% yourself - mistakes, flaws, silly faces, and all.

Discover the Magic of Your “Genius Zone”

If you’re experiencing a struggle right now in your virtual business with the dolla dolla bills flowing in - there’s no freaking excuse. A restaurant, gym, brick and mortar, or event-based business, yes, they’re getting hit hard right now. But if you’ve got online biz, or even a portion of your biz online and you’re not bringing in money now when MORE people are online and doing business online than ever before....then, it’s both because of what you’re doing and more importantly, it’s because you’re not BEING the dang thing consistently. Questioning yourself. Doubting. Delaying on doing those things. Getting mired in the spiral of “productive procrastination” - doing all the things - except for those in your genius zone.