Faith and fear are basically the same thing - it’s a BELIEF in something that HAS NOT YET HAPPENED coming true and yet, believing with CERTAINTY that that which has not happened yet, will happen. And both are like a compass. One is pointed in the direction of what you want. The other is pointed in the direction of what you don’t want. Discover your faith and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I have a belief. I’ll warn you…it’s quite controversial. You see, I used to have this desperate, dire fear of being wrong. GASP! NO! Say it isn’t so! From this fear-based belief, it led me down a dark and windy, lonely road to perfectionism. All or nothing. Nothing was ever good enough. 99% = Failure. Only 100% or more. Discover your belief and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
There is so much emphasis placed on “having confidence.” these days. It seems like everyone wants to know how to “have confidence?” Where’d my confidence go? If I only was confident, then I’d [GO AHEAD AND FILL IN THE BLANK] As if it could just magically disappear or arrive in your life. When I first started my business I was NOT confident. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You’ve seen it - that random friend request from some stranger in the marketing industry. Or that comment on your insta to “collab.” You feel it… You know it’s coming… And you think... “AAAAAHHH! I'm about to be hit over the head with another bad sales pitch in my DM's! No, not again!” Discover your sales relationship and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I’ve got a secret for you.Knowing this has allowed me to…Recover completely from a 10 year battle with bulimia…Write a feature film that got on Netflix…Meet, keep, marry, and make beautiful babies with the love of my life...Become the partner in a quarter-million dollar company at 24…Defy doctor’s beliefs and have my baby, my way…Start my dream business…Bounce my body back to it’s pre-baby style with ease...Become a Forbes contributor…Close $39,000 private clients... Live in freaking Australia… Wanna know what it is?Discover the secret and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever have one of those days (or weeks #letsbehonest) where you gotta take your own medicine. 🙋🏻♀️. Hi, yeah, right here.For a hot second this week, I was getting down on myself for not doing all my "new year things..."Having my vision board done...Having completed @manifestationbabe's Epically Aligned workshop...Having done my own 6-month journaling prompts for designing my next level of life, business, money, travel, relationships...Discover your vision and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
“Do you fling yourself off a cliff and expect to fly to Hawaii?” I asked my client.She stared at me perplexedly, “Um...no...I would die.”“Exactly!” I exclaimed.You see...Having worked with 5,6, and 7-figure entrepreneurs for the past 4 years, and having been an entrepreneur for the past 12 years, I’ve found the number one reason why people start their own businesses - freedom. Hey, it was my reason too. Discover your freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Remember back in 2007 when that recession hit?I had just started freelancing as a Pilates instructor. I was working primarily at one studio and within one year, I had become the highest paid, youngest instructor at the studio.I went from making smoothies at BodyWorks for $8.75 an hour to a $55,000 year! I was enraptured!“So this is what big time feels like?” I thought. Haha.Awww, what a cute little entrepreneur I was back then.But here’s the other thought I continued to think that served me POWERFULLY throughout a decade of entrepreneurship. Discover your beliefs towards your decisions and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Have you ever looked for that next thing to “complete” you? Maybe it was another certification or degree? Or that ONE magic thing that you need that will CHANGE EVERYTHING? Maybe it’s another course, or another coach or another THING- something outside of you that you THINK you need to “fix” you. And I gotta tell ya... you’re looking in all the wrong spots. There is no magic cure. There is no fix. Discover your completeness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Habits are the results of the thoughts you think, the feelings you feel, and most importantly, the BELIEF you have. While most coaches work on the “doing” habits of getting you to your goals, how often are you working on the habits of BEING? Being who you are creating yourself to be? Discover 3 questions to ask yourself to help you become more consistent with your DOING habits, by starting with the BEING.
Dad. It’s a word that packs a lot of meaning. Ask ten people and you’ll get ten different answers. For me “dad” means parks, BELIEF, addiction, shame, money, entrepreneurs, possibility, Faith, challenge, change, pain, joy, pride, hope, county fairs, success, failure, sacrifice, police cars, alcohol, screaming matches, forgiveness dolls, provider, numbing, generosity, escapism, creativity, potential. I grew up with an addict. It felt like I had four dads. And yet, amidst all the multiple personalities and transformations my dad has undergone, he’s managed to grow a business from measly to multi-million dollars a year with my mom. When I called halfway houses back in 2016, they were shocked that he could be such a high-functioning addict. “Truly remarkable!” one woman said.
“I don’t want to come off as too salesy.” My client was struggling with what a lot of solopreneurs struggle with - how much is too much selling? How do you balance messaging and adding value with selling? Let me ask you this… “When you go into a coffee shop, do you get mad or upset at the barista for trying to sell you coffee?” “No…” my client looked at me quizzically. “Have you ever had a barista say, ‘I’m sorry, I’m not feeling worthy today of selling you a coffee?’” “No,” she said with a laugh. I persist, “And even if, let’s say, that did happen, and you were standing in the coffee shop, even just considering purchasing a coffee, even if you weren’t sure what you wanted, and that barista said that to you, you’d possibly even feel a little offended, right? Like, why are you saying you’re “OPEN” then if you’re not going to sell me a dang cup of coffee?’ Right?” She laughed, “I think this is what you call...a BREAKTHROUGH.”
As a Type A, perfectionist, A+ student, I looooooved getting extra credit. Only 100? Why not 110%? Or 115%? Or...screw it...150%!! Yaaaaaas, teacher, please give me the extra work, the extra tasks, the extra assignments. Easy to see how that could easily program one to associate MORE work, MORE suffering, MORE struggle with MORE results, right? Here’s the thing [First Name]... More work just equals more work. And what I’ve seen working with high achievers for the past 3 years, and being one for the last...well, ALL the years of my life...is that so often we make it an even trade: WORK X AMOUNT HARD = X AMOUNT OF RESULTS Where are the miracles, the fun, the joy in that? Where does that leave room for the Universe/God/ Source to show up in more powerful ways than you could have ever imagined?
