Did you know that your discomfort is a GOOD thing? When you feel overwhelmed, uncomfortable, like you want to blame someone, or you feel gross, weird, awkward AF, all of those are signs that you are teetering on the edge of a new way of being. A new identity awaits on the other side of everything that makes your ego want to scream and run away, hiding under the rock of its excuses. Discover new possibilities and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You’ve seen it - that random friend request from some stranger in the marketing industry. Or that comment on your insta to “collab.” You feel it… You know it’s coming… And you think... “AAAAAHHH! I'm about to be hit over the head with another bad sales pitch in my DM's! No, not again!” Discover your sales relationship and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever not “feel ready?” Like, someday, somewhere, out there in the future, there will be a day when you feel ready to take that leap, move to that country, start that business, find that relationship, have that baby. Look, I can tell you honestly... I don’t feel ready. For any of it. But then again, I never did. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I have been so grateful for all the comments, and it’s no wonder that this past week - heck, this past month, while both my parents got COVID, and then with my dad in the hospital, that I have had a lot of time to look at death from all angles.And you know what I saw...many.You die a thousand times if you live into your full potential.Every next level requires a next-level version of you, meaning some part of your, some old identity, MUST die in order to live fully in the life of your dreams.When I look back on the self-destructive, bulimic, 19-year old me, I don’t recognize myself in her anymore. I just see a sad, broken girl, searching for control and ultimately wholeness and love in all the wrong places.That version of me died.Discover the next-level version of you. and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I wish I could say this week has been what it normally is - one focused on vision, creation, expansion, and preparation for the next evolution in a new year. I guess you could say that it has, in it’s own way, an emotional unfolding of values, release, cutting energetic cords, and practicing the utmost presence. My dad was hospitalized the day after Christmas with COVID, put into a medically induced coma, on a ventilator, and due to COVID restrictions, my mom isn’t even allowed by his side. We didn’t know if he was going to live or die, though day by day, it’s looking incrementally better. Discover your emotions and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
When I first started Crown Yourself, I didn’t start out on coaching entrepreneurs to increase their profits 150% in the next 12 months...that came over time. Back in 2016, I just wanted to help people. Still do. And, like Liam Neeson, I had a certain set of skills that could do it - NLP, Time Line Therapy, hypnosis, and Pilates parasympathetic breathing. I had ONE offer back then: The Gold Package. It is like a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am of 8 hours that my clients said literally transformed their lives. Discover your momentum and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
If negativity is your kryptonite too, keep reading.⠀Because hot dang, I feel frankly worn from these past few weeks. You too?Thank God for Spike, my partner, and my support when I’m in the middle of a “Hurri-Kim” of crap feelings.Fortunately, I’ve cultivated the tools over years and years of work to recognize, acknowledge, shift and breakthrough - but dang, when you’re in it it’s like the breaking down of your being.What happens when you get stabbed with your own kryptonite?You feel the inner pangs of your own fear, doubt, frustration, shame, or whatever other Superwoman-crushing feelings, you feel, that make you - Human. Embrace your being human and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
“Do you fling yourself off a cliff and expect to fly to Hawaii?” I asked my client.She stared at me perplexedly, “Um...no...I would die.”“Exactly!” I exclaimed.You see...Having worked with 5,6, and 7-figure entrepreneurs for the past 4 years, and having been an entrepreneur for the past 12 years, I’ve found the number one reason why people start their own businesses - freedom. Hey, it was my reason too. Discover your freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I used to hide from the parts of myself I hated - the hypocrite, the negative, the jealous bitch, the victim, the whiny brat. Typically, I’m a pretty positive person. But there are days when the doubt rages or the fear feels all too consuming. And usually, there is a thought - just one on repeat that’s like “It’s a small world,” where now you can’t get it out of your head, can you? And it’s there. And it sucks. Discover your deepest transformation and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Right now with everything going on with the greatest civil rights movement in the history of the US - 50 states standing for justice FOR black lives matter - it feels wrong to promote anything - my business included. Do I still believe it is your social responsibility to keep selling? 💯 percent. Do I still believe that it’s essential to our economy to keep our businesses going and growing right now if you have an online-based business? ….Especially now. 10000% yes. Do I still believe that by growing your business you will be able to make MORE of a difference by being able to donate more to causes to support people of color? Absolutely. Do I still believe that by growing your business, you will be able to make MORE of a difference by creating an extraordinary, diverse, anti-racist company culture, that teaches, preaches, and lives it’s company’s values of diversity, discovery, and acceptance? YAS! YAS! YAS! Do I still believe that by growing your business, you can HIRE more people of color? 100% YAAAAAAS QUEEN. But does it still feel wrong at this moment to talk about anything other than that black lives matter? For me, yes.
When I first started my business, I marketed and worked with 99% women - fierce, badass, driven, ambitious women who wanted it all and who were willing to put their nose to the grindstone, do the work, hustle hard, pedal to the metal, push themselves until they broke down or burnt out, the go-go-goal-getters who were driven AF to move heaven and earth to do the work. Usually, it was from a place of giving, of service, of a desire to be more, do more, share more, serve more. It didn’t matter whether they were giving to 1300 students in an online course, or giving money, time, energy, to their kids, giving to everyone, everyone...except themselves. Giving from lack is not giving from love.
Like attracts like. The Secret. You can manifest money as you desire. Choose to attract what you want in your life - more money, more health, more business, more amazing relationships. All totally true. All 100% possible. But what happens when your actions and behavior, consciously or unconsciously, is out of fear or scarcity? See, that’s the part of the Law of Attraction that’s not so sexy. Like attracts like after all. Scarcity breeds more scarcity. If you’re operating right now from a place of scarcity and fear - hunkering down, budgeting, getting “needy” for clients - you will absolutely 100% attract prospects and clients who are doing the same.
