Last year, I was catching up with one of my former clients, Sylvia over brunch. Yes, mimosas and all. (Ah, I remember those. #Notforanother6Months ) She was recounting all the amazing things that happened since we worked together. And I was eating it up! She’d landed her dream job. She’d got a $12,000 raise. She was now being considered for another leadership role. She’d met someone...you know...special. 😉 Discover your ripple effect and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You’re not broken (you never were.)
In case you needed to hear this today… You are NOT broken. This was one of the most profound, transformational breakthroughs I had. And when it sunk into my soul back in 2016, it stuck...for good. It is the BELIEF that you are broken, or even could be broken that is 100% plagiarized. Just because you’re growing. Just because you’re choosing to create a new reality doesn’t mean that the old one was broken. Ever. Discover your growth and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Building Sustainable Subconscious Programming
When I first started Crown Yourself, I didn’t start out on coaching entrepreneurs to increase their profits 150% in the next 12 months...that came over time. Back in 2016, I just wanted to help people. Still do. And, like Liam Neeson, I had a certain set of skills that could do it - NLP, Time Line Therapy, hypnosis, and Pilates parasympathetic breathing. I had ONE offer back then: The Gold Package. It is like a wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am of 8 hours that my clients said literally transformed their lives. Discover your momentum and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
ALIGNMENT CHECK IN TO GO FOR THE GOLD
In honor of being nominated for “Best of the Best” for the Erin Strayer show, I was thinking of what I could do that would totally celebrate with you! Like I want to give you the greatest gift, more than any other sugar daddy on Instagram has ever offered me ;) (Oh yeah, even while pregnant that stuff still happens.) We had some other plans in the pipeline - but I was just...struggling...to...get...started. Whenever that happens, I know there is a massive alignment check. Either it’s the offer. Or the product. Or me. I explore all avenues. On my Queen Team meeting this week with our Members’ Manager, Marie, it hit me. It was the offer and the product. What I had planned on putting out this week for you, just didn’t ring Christmas cheer - especially after the year we’ve all had. Discover your transformation and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How to Lead Your Business with Faith and Vision
Two years ago, I did an interview on the Erin Strayer Show. I do a lot of interviews these days, at least 2-3 a week for different shows, summits, speaking gigs, so sometimes, it can feel like a blur when you’re constantly in the go-go-go of the grind. But I never forgot about Erin. (I’ll tell you why tomorrow. 😉) Turns out...now I find out that in 3 years of her show, my episode has become one of her MOST WATCHED EPISODES EVER!!! And now, we’re nominated for the “Best of the Best” Awards! Discover you aunthenticity and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Who's the Boss?
Could you imagine having a boss who lets you slide?Didn’t make a sale this week?BOSS: “Eh...it’s okay, you did your best. I’m sure you’ll do better next week.”Didn’t handle that customer issue? Didn’t close that BIG sale?BOSS: “You know what, we can always get more customers. That’s okay.”Didn’t complete or, heck, even start that project that’s you KNOW you need to do?BOSS: “You know what...it’s not THAT important. You can always get to it next week. Here’s a bottle of wine. Take the weekend off. You tried hard.”Heck no!Your BOSS would be fired by THEIR boss...who would then fire you.Discover your personal standards and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
2020: The Year of Doubling
It was two weeks ago, I was sitting at the kitchen table of our AirBnB, pulling document after document of proof of my income to show to the rental company for our new place. I even needed a letter from my accountant stating the growth of my company. FYI, Australia doesn’t mess around when it comes to proving you can pay your bills. As I was reviewing my numbers, it was then that it hit me… “Holy shit...I did it!” I leapt up from my chair and ran into Spike. “I did it!” We doubled our income this year. We doubled our profit this year. Discover your growth and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Settling for fine? 🤦🏼♀️
One of the biggest obstacles that I’ve seen to a successful client’s greatness is their comfort level. Especially when you’ve achieved a lot, especially when you’ve had several significant wins under your belt, especially when you’ve been able to grow, scale, accomplish goals of impressive heights - there is a height, an altitude that is comfortable. Flying higher seems dangerous. We wanted not to do that. Right, Icarus? So we coast at an altitude that suits us - nice bottles of wine, nice home, nice life - no real NEED for change. Claim your throne of courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
How’s your energy these days?
Can you believe we are in DECEMBER? What? What time is it? What day is it? The fact that we are still here now in Australia, and have been since March, still dazzles me.It’s taken loads of courage, I can tell ya that.This year has been, for many, an emotional rollercoaster. So I just wanted to check in.How’s your energy these days?Your emotions are a powerful guidance tool to gauge your energy. Discover your energy and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Release to receive
Expectations can be hard to manage, especially when you’re a high achiever.We tend to set the bar pretty darn high for how life/business/our bodies “should be.In the past, I’ve had this expectancy of what I “should” be making or “should” be doing around the holidays.So many shoulds.You should have turkey on Thanksgiving.You should sell on Black Friday.You should be making more money.There is a difference between living with expectations - having a belief that certain dreams and desires that you have will come true.And operating with expectancy - being in the STATE of anticipation.Manifest your dreams to reality and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Connect Deeper this Season
For the first time in 2 years, I chose to NOT do like the rest of the world.Every year over Thanksgiving in the past, I have been glued to my computer frantically creating content and a Black Friday/Cyber Monday offer that, frankly, never really was in alignment, to begin with.I’ll be honest. I created a lot of them out of a “scarcity mindset” - and I learned a hard lesson when you do that.They sold a whopping zero. Two years in a row.Yes, one year selling zero is a fluke. Two is a pattern.So this year, between moving into our new place - an actual apartment not an AirBnB - and jumping through all the hoops that went into that...It just didn’t feel aligned to throw out some bundle that wasn’t 100% from a place of service, trust, and faith.No one needs more stuff right now.Discover your connections and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Lose Yourself to Gain Everything.
Confession time: Eminem has helped unlock my soul since 2009. To this day, Lose Yourself still gives me chills. It is a song that when it comes on, the volume goes all the way up, and suddenly this Fire Rabbit (if you’re familiar with Chinese astrology and a proper double entendre with Eminem’s character in 8 Mile) comes out. She is fierce. She is driven. She is freaking powerful. Ever have a song that taps you into who you KNOW you are and can be at your soul? Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
The three fears of entrepreneurs
Watch out, because I’ve got a bone to pick (and yeah, it’s because I picked it raw and real in the first 1.5 years in my business.)You see, back then I was doing all the things - blogging, photoshoot, website design, creating products (that no one wanted), investing in tech, like, everything...Except for making money.My husband even had a joke back then, that I couldn’t get 15 minutes into a Netflix show without whipping open my computer and getting to work.Fast forward till now...And I just finished watching 2 glorious hours of Ancient Aliens...sans computer, and sans baby.I enjoyed every single second of it. No laptop. No phone. No kiddo even (he was in school.) Conquer your fears and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You CAN'T steal this.
It boggles my mind when I see this come up in business - stealing customers. Gasp! Oh no, say it ain’t so! And not in a “How could someone do that to someone else?” No, no, no… It’s in a “how can someone think it’s even possible to “steal” a client?” Like, do you own them? Are you their master? And are they your slave? Because dear Lord, if we head down that road, we’re headed for trouble. Discover a mindset of abundance and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
What it really means when you're "too busy"
When I was younger I used to PRIDE myself on being busy, “Better busy than bored,” I’d announce, beaming at my packed schedule with massive gratitude.I looooved what I was doing. I felt in alignment, so being “busy” never bothered me because it fueled me on a soul level (and work also allowed me to escape dealing with things in my romantic relationships - but that’s another story for another day). It was about a year into teaching Pilates that I was blessed with a paradigm shift around “busyness.” Discover your real priorities and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
My kryptonite.
If negativity is your kryptonite too, keep reading.⠀Because hot dang, I feel frankly worn from these past few weeks. You too?Thank God for Spike, my partner, and my support when I’m in the middle of a “Hurri-Kim” of crap feelings.Fortunately, I’ve cultivated the tools over years and years of work to recognize, acknowledge, shift and breakthrough - but dang, when you’re in it it’s like the breaking down of your being.What happens when you get stabbed with your own kryptonite?You feel the inner pangs of your own fear, doubt, frustration, shame, or whatever other Superwoman-crushing feelings, you feel, that make you - Human. Embrace your being human and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
So you say you want freedom?
“Do you fling yourself off a cliff and expect to fly to Hawaii?” I asked my client.She stared at me perplexedly, “Um...no...I would die.”“Exactly!” I exclaimed.You see...Having worked with 5,6, and 7-figure entrepreneurs for the past 4 years, and having been an entrepreneur for the past 12 years, I’ve found the number one reason why people start their own businesses - freedom. Hey, it was my reason too. Discover your freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
What recession?
Remember back in 2007 when that recession hit?I had just started freelancing as a Pilates instructor. I was working primarily at one studio and within one year, I had become the highest paid, youngest instructor at the studio.I went from making smoothies at BodyWorks for $8.75 an hour to a $55,000 year! I was enraptured!“So this is what big time feels like?” I thought. Haha.Awww, what a cute little entrepreneur I was back then.But here’s the other thought I continued to think that served me POWERFULLY throughout a decade of entrepreneurship. Discover your beliefs towards your decisions and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
The #1 reason why people hire you.
“Why would anyone want to hire me? There are so many others in my industry. I just feel like I don’t compare.”“You’re right,” I said.Her mouth dropped open. I don’t think my client was expecting me to agree with her, when she was so used to me challenging her excuses.“Your industry is rapidly growing,” I continued, ”And, yes, there are definitely people way ahead of you, making more money, with larger followings.”“So how do I breakthrough?” she asked. I could feel her frustration through the Zoom screen.“Perhaps that’s the wrong question. Let me ask you this...Why did you hire me?”Without even a pause, “Well, your energy, and your background, and how you’ve helped other people. I just felt like you would GET me.” Discover your energy and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Make it work.
After I cleaned up my mindset, there are only a few reality shows I will watch now - Queer Eye, Shark Tank, and Project Runway. I always love the creativity of high fashion. And sure, hasn’t every princess ALSO dreamed of becoming a runway model? On Project Runway, whenever the pressure is on and the contestants are trying to figure out creating an outfit, there’s always a time when Tim Gunn pops into the work room to advise and council - basically, he’s like their fashion coach. Discover your strength under pressure and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.















