I remember I had one client who joked with me, “If after a year working with you I can get my plane, I’ll know it was worth it.” Guess what happened one year later. You see, after working with business owners and executives for the past 5 years, I’ve seen a direct correlation between the amount of money a person is making and the amount of time they are spending in their zone of genius. Discover your zone of genius and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
A lot of times when people call us names or say things like you’re “too much” or “too bold” or are selfish for wanting more, or you’re stupid for being into whatever it is that lights you up...I want you to know this from the bottom of my heart... It’s not you. It’s them. While I’m not one for passing the buck or shifting the blame onto others, perception is projection. It’s mirror neurons, baby! Discover your light and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
When I first heard this idea from one of my mentors that “buyers are liars,” I was triggered every which way from Sunday. What do you mean I don’t know what I want? You think I’m lying to myself about what I desire? And then I realized...after telling my ego to chill TF out...yeah, I’m guilty of lying to myself too when I buy. Less now, after several years of reshaping my money-mindset. Trust your choices and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
There is so much emphasis placed on “having confidence.” these days. It seems like everyone wants to know how to “have confidence?” Where’d my confidence go? If I only was confident, then I’d [GO AHEAD AND FILL IN THE BLANK] As if it could just magically disappear or arrive in your life. When I first started my business I was NOT confident. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I remember back before Decky was born when my business was making pittance - and by that I mean, absolutely nada - that I was living in the lap of this one luxury. No, it was not our one-bedroom apartment in Koreatown. Nor was it the fancy designer handbags and shoes I’d vigilantly saved up to buy year after year. Choose your life’s luxuries and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Here’s the hardest part about how I coach - I’m not going to TELL you what you want to hear. I’m not going to tell you the answer. So many clients have come to me looking for the answer - in me, externally, as If I have the solution to solve their life. And about 1/3 of the way in they realize this... I’m not letting them take the easy way out. Discover your answers and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Are you scared of being judged? Ridiculed? Hated on? Ever think…. What will they think if I do… What’ll they say if you share… I could never do XYZ because then they would think... First of all - who TF is this elusive “they” who are scaring you out of doing your soul work? And secondly… Look Queen... The ones who judge you, belittle you, mock you, aren’t the ones who are doing it. Unleash your greatness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Don’t like being manipulated? Ugh, me neither. So, stop hiding ALL of who you are. Authenticity is the antithesis of manipulation. Faking it. Pretending. Trying not to make waves. Not wanting to rock the boat. Playing nice so that people will like you. Hiding your truth. Discover your authenticity and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
While one of our core values as a company and for me personally is “Grow or Die” (hardcore, yes I know)... At the same time, even I get scared of the growth that is to come. Perhaps the greatest and most revered act of courage is knowing that you’re headed into a season of growth, and going forth and forward with it. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Every next level requires a deepening, a recommitment, a remembrance of the vision you are creating. When Spike and I first made the decision to stay in Australia, we made the commitment not knowing when we would return. He thought a few weeks I thought a few months. And here we are over one year later. I joke we packed for three weeks and are now staying for three years. Rediscover your commitments and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Fear inspires no one. Sure, it motivates. Of course you can really get moving with fear, but ultimately chaos and fear don’t inspire. Inspiration is divine. It’s soul connecting with soul. Courage is inspiration in motion. Having the courage to admit when you’re scared. Having the courage to go into the arena. Having the courage to do what someone else won’t or believes they can’t. That inspires. Discover your inspiration and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever not “feel ready?” Like, someday, somewhere, out there in the future, there will be a day when you feel ready to take that leap, move to that country, start that business, find that relationship, have that baby. Look, I can tell you honestly... I don’t feel ready. For any of it. But then again, I never did. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Consistently throughout these past trying months facing the deepest fear and acceptance of loss I have ever known after losing my dad, I have been told, “You’re so strong.” Or, “You’re the strongest person I know.” I don’t say this to brag. My mom has too. And I’ll be honest, I am strong and I’m tired of being strong and I’m proud of my strength at the same time. Sometimes the “strong ones” struggle most when they feel anything but. Accept your weakness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
CONFESSION: I like big butts and I cannot lie. Well, I more so like the Sir Mix-a-Lot song. The REAL truth is, it’s my freaking go-to karaoke song. Yes, I know every word. And I bust it out like you would not imagine. Truly, a spectacle to behold. You’re welcome if you are blessed to see it. Recently it’s been in my head. Not because I’ve been going out hitting the karaoke bars - hellloooo, pregnant. But, because Declan’s been sticking his butt in the air, saying “Mama, look at my butt” as he shakes it for all to behold...I have no idea where he learned this. I mean this kid has NO inhibitions. Discover your self-acceptance and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
OMG! OMG! It’s here. It’s out. It’s live. It’s freaking scary. It’s freaking happening. It’s freaking done. There’s no going back now. Because that is what happens every time you up-level - every time you grow beyond your current capacity. You change who you are at your core. It’s your choice to decide... To choose... You choose how life changes you. Choose how to change your life and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
523,600 minutes. The musical “Rent” has been playing on the backtrack of my mind since my dad died. Particularly the songs, “Without You” and “Seasons of Love” - probably more so the latter since Decky loves the song because it has numbers in it. 523,600 minutes. 523,000 moments so dear. 523,600 minutes, how do you measure a year? Each one of those 523,600 minutes is a moment to LOVE. Choose to love and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Oh it hurts so good - you know the feeling - when you’re totally crushing it in the gym. You push that extra mile. You do that ONE, LAST rep. You do 10X more sit ups because you’re just in the freaking zone. That is what we call good pain. Good pain comes from growth. It comes from that depth of soul, of your personal power, when you lean courageously in to go that extra mile. And it doesn’t just show up in the gym. I see it all the time in my client’s businesses. Discover your good pain and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Death gives us a very clear reflection of our own mortality. In the past month since my dad’s passing, I’ve seen the beautiful gift that death is. For without death, what is life? It is the end that allows us to assess the means of living. If our human brains could comprehend eternity, we’d have no fear of the beyond or if the infinite or of that word...forever. Losing my dad has allowed me an exploration of my own life and the standards by which I live. Discover your standards and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I’ve got a secret for you.Knowing this has allowed me to…Recover completely from a 10 year battle with bulimia…Write a feature film that got on Netflix…Meet, keep, marry, and make beautiful babies with the love of my life...Become the partner in a quarter-million dollar company at 24…Defy doctor’s beliefs and have my baby, my way…Start my dream business…Bounce my body back to it’s pre-baby style with ease...Become a Forbes contributor…Close $39,000 private clients... Live in freaking Australia… Wanna know what it is?Discover the secret and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Yeah, I know I normally write some fancy pants thing that sparks inspiration, wonder, merriment or challenges the soul, but today, tonight especially, I decided to bring some levity and light as we enter into 2021. 2020 has been a year of growth and expansion for all of us. This week alone has been a final stretch of growth for me personally in all ways. If nothing else, 2020 has taught me to ENJOY your work, your life, your family, your friends, and not take everything so freaking seriously. Because, in the end, it is the moments of both joy and courage that we seized and the moments of joy and courage that we missed that we remember the most. Discover your moments of joy and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
