The number one reason most of my clients come to work with me is NOT that they want to build a business. It's NOT for my strategies, or my systems, or my digital nomad, have two babies, live in Australia lifestyle. It’s NOT that they want to even make more money (although they always do want to). The number ONE REASON why my clients come to me is this: It's for FREEDOM + EASE. Discover your freedom and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Do you have any idea just how powerful YOU are? Your body has the power to heal itself. When you get a cut, your body immediately goes to work in healing it. You don’t have to think about it. You don’t have to work hard for it to heal. It heals. You bandage that bad boy up and - voila! - within a couple days your body has healed itself. When you break a bone, you set it and forget it. Claim your power and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
When I first heard this idea from one of my mentors that “buyers are liars,” I was triggered every which way from Sunday. What do you mean I don’t know what I want? You think I’m lying to myself about what I desire? And then I realized...after telling my ego to chill TF out...yeah, I’m guilty of lying to myself too when I buy. Less now, after several years of reshaping my money-mindset. Trust your choices and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I have a belief. I’ll warn you…it’s quite controversial. You see, I used to have this desperate, dire fear of being wrong. GASP! NO! Say it isn’t so! From this fear-based belief, it led me down a dark and windy, lonely road to perfectionism. All or nothing. Nothing was ever good enough. 99% = Failure. Only 100% or more. Discover your belief and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
There is so much emphasis placed on “having confidence.” these days. It seems like everyone wants to know how to “have confidence?” Where’d my confidence go? If I only was confident, then I’d [GO AHEAD AND FILL IN THE BLANK] As if it could just magically disappear or arrive in your life. When I first started my business I was NOT confident. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
You’ve seen it - that random friend request from some stranger in the marketing industry. Or that comment on your insta to “collab.” You feel it… You know it’s coming… And you think... “AAAAAHHH! I'm about to be hit over the head with another bad sales pitch in my DM's! No, not again!” Discover your sales relationship and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I remember back before Decky was born when my business was making pittance - and by that I mean, absolutely nada - that I was living in the lap of this one luxury. No, it was not our one-bedroom apartment in Koreatown. Nor was it the fancy designer handbags and shoes I’d vigilantly saved up to buy year after year. Choose your life’s luxuries and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I do some of my best thinking from bed on my phone. No, I’m not scrolling or consuming. No, I’m not on Instagram or Facebook, looking at how many likes something I’ve shared has or hasn’t received, or waiting to be triggered by someone’s comment. I’ve trained my tool to be a vessel of creativity. Most of my blogs, posts and emails are written from bed on my phone. Discover your discipline and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Here’s the hardest part about how I coach - I’m not going to TELL you what you want to hear. I’m not going to tell you the answer. So many clients have come to me looking for the answer - in me, externally, as If I have the solution to solve their life. And about 1/3 of the way in they realize this... I’m not letting them take the easy way out. Discover your answers and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Are you scared of being judged? Ridiculed? Hated on? Ever think…. What will they think if I do… What’ll they say if you share… I could never do XYZ because then they would think... First of all - who TF is this elusive “they” who are scaring you out of doing your soul work? And secondly… Look Queen... The ones who judge you, belittle you, mock you, aren’t the ones who are doing it. Unleash your greatness and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Don’t like being manipulated? Ugh, me neither. So, stop hiding ALL of who you are. Authenticity is the antithesis of manipulation. Faking it. Pretending. Trying not to make waves. Not wanting to rock the boat. Playing nice so that people will like you. Hiding your truth. Discover your authenticity and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
While one of our core values as a company and for me personally is “Grow or Die” (hardcore, yes I know)... At the same time, even I get scared of the growth that is to come. Perhaps the greatest and most revered act of courage is knowing that you’re headed into a season of growth, and going forth and forward with it. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Every next level requires a deepening, a recommitment, a remembrance of the vision you are creating. When Spike and I first made the decision to stay in Australia, we made the commitment not knowing when we would return. He thought a few weeks I thought a few months. And here we are over one year later. I joke we packed for three weeks and are now staying for three years. Rediscover your commitments and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Fear inspires no one. Sure, it motivates. Of course you can really get moving with fear, but ultimately chaos and fear don’t inspire. Inspiration is divine. It’s soul connecting with soul. Courage is inspiration in motion. Having the courage to admit when you’re scared. Having the courage to go into the arena. Having the courage to do what someone else won’t or believes they can’t. That inspires. Discover your inspiration and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever not “feel ready?” Like, someday, somewhere, out there in the future, there will be a day when you feel ready to take that leap, move to that country, start that business, find that relationship, have that baby. Look, I can tell you honestly... I don’t feel ready. For any of it. But then again, I never did. Discover your courage and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I don’t feel the need to perform. I don’t feel the need to achieve a fucking thing right now. I am totally 100% content in this moment with just being. And I’m sitting with the weirdness and the greatness of that. I mean how often, as a high achiever, as parents, as business owners, do we give ourselves the permission to just BE? To NOT do? To NOT perform? Nurture your body and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
I don’t write content to write content. I don’t do it because I “have” to. I don’t make podcasts because it’s the latest coolest thing that all the “legit” coaches are doing. I didn’t start a Youtube channel to be cool or to get a Streamy or to be some “influencer.” I don’t send emails because I “need to stay in touch with my list.” Discover your ONLY reason and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Have you struggled to speak up for yourself? Ever feel like you just...weren’t...being...heard? Ugh. It’s the world’s most frustrating feeling. I still struggle with it. That feeling like you’re screaming into the wind and all you’re receiving are crickets in return. Maybe it’s in your marketing messaging that’s just not...landing...or getting the reactions you expect. Maybe it’s with your body, like “Uh, hello body, I’m putting all this work into toning you down. You’re supposed to be losing weight not gaining, right?” Discover your voice and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Ever felt out of step? Off the beat? There is a feeling when you are living in the flow of faith and possibility...and when you’re not. When you’re stuck in frustration and overwhelm it feels like you’re the Universe's dance partner with two left feet, tripping over yourself, fumbling, tumbling, and stumbling trying to hold it together with some modicum of grace. Discover your purpose and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
Oops I did it again. Yes, I pulled a Brittany. No, I didn’t run off and get married...again. I caught myself doubting myself. #OhNoSheDidnt Yes, even now, even after the Universe mother-effing DELIVERED LIKE A MOFO last year in #alltheways, I still caught myself spiraling last week in a story of “not being supported.” Ah, fear. Doubt. My old friends. Good to see you again. Thanks for the lesson...again. Recognize your self-limiting beliefs and tap into your reign. Click to read the full blogspiration.
